To me BDSM is a GAME. The best. Exciting, serious, intimate.
As a game, have its own rules, is disciplinate, we all respect the implicit rules concerning our respective roles, whether or not explicit.
- It’s fun, because the purpose is the enjoyment of all participants.
- It feeds on, we evolve and grow with it. We develope as people.
- we voluntarily chose to participate in it, and we agreed practices among us.
- And is imaginative, because it allows us to hatch those facets that are latent, or hidden in our everyday life.
When a slave grant the privilege to submit to me, he/she comes into MY world. A playful but REAL world. Where he/she becomes my property subject, and their submission and obedience are constantly tested. While he/she is in my hands, I am the center of that world, and his existence is fully targeted to satisfy my commands and wishes.
Punishments and rewards are essential instruments to build a real Mistress/slave relationship . I Use either one or other indifferently, without causality, just for the pleasure of change submissive behavior, and guide them only to serve me. With all his senses, at all levels.
I dont like paid slaves themselves. Submissives should never expect a reward for their efforts, because in my world only remain those I consider to give me 100% of themselves. And therefore, the most important award is, in fact, to continue in my presence.
Application of punishment will be accurate and preferably severe, so the slave can feel, see, remember and preserve its effects on his mind and body for days.
I dont tolerate transgressions. Contradict me deliberately is a rebellion that disgusts me, an gross attempt to manipulate The Mistress, and its will be settled being dismissed of my service.